August 8th

​It has been over a year since I have written on this blog- but I thought this week would be the perfect time to write a post since technically this is the last time Carly will be sitting across from me at the bistro table as a single lady. Our very own Carly is marrying her love Kaleb this coming weekend. In what could  be a normal weekend to anyone else- August 8th will always be written on their hearts.

I can only imagine what this week leading up to the wedding must be like. Scratching off last minute to do items, soaking up time with family and friends, and trying to figure out how to balance any emotions that pop up along the way."Should I be more excited? Should I be more nervous? Should I be nervously-excited? "

There is so much built up excitement and normalcy all within the same week. With so many different reactions/milestones/ prep on social media nowadays it is easy to compare what your time before a major milestone in life should be like. Amidst all that- I hope Carly and Kaleb both know this is what they have discerned, prayed for, prepped for and worked for. All the Facetime calls, all the surprise visits, going on a trip to Africa (yeah.....), tests and tests, the bar exam, stress of school on both accounts, and being there for family members who have been in the hospital. You both have been through it all and are so very ready for this next step.

Even though part of me is crushed we will never be roommates again (Thank you University of St. Thomas for such a fun May!) -- I know from my time living with this girl that Kaleb could not have asked for a better partner in life. She always tries to do better for herself and those around her, is the best elementary school teacher a kid could ask for (Kaleb will receive lots of information about kids and school reform), personality tests will be filled out multiple times for each child they have as the kids go through the phases of life, and a new fad will be always waiting around the corner to try. (Hello flax cookies! Kids: Do not try this at home). She continues to challenge me to grow as a person  and always is the most fun sidekick to laugh with, dance silly with, and just be with.

I cannot wait to be part of the ride as their train is just taking off. My heartfelt prayer is that the two of you will enjoy all the sudden stops, drops, and climbs while going around the track of life. Every stage will be beautiful and I am so excited to be able to enjoy the ride.


Thank you both for saying yes to a beautiful but trying vocation. The world needs you both as a couple. We all love you. Your friends and family are praying for you this week leading up to the big day.

Cheers!! Let's get Carly married.